Tag Archives: Wisdom

“There is no human being from whom we cannot learn something if we are interested enough to dig deep.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

7 Jan

From Lara Setrakian’s 2018 New Year’s email.

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“The one who knows, does not say; the one who says, does not know.”

16 Nov

Anthony de Mello in “Awareness”

“Four steps to wisdom. The first thing you need to do is get in touch with negative feelings that you’re not even arware of. – The second step is to understand that the feeling is in you, not in reality. – The third step: Never identify with that feeling. It has nothing to do with the “I”. – The fourth step: How do you change things? How do you change yourselves?”

16 Nov

Anthony de Mello in “Awareness”

On expanding the third step; never identify with negative feelings:

  • P. 80 “If you want to say depression is in there, that’s fine; if you want to say gloominess is in there, that’s fine.  But not: I am gloomy.”
  • P. 80 “Your depression and your thrills have nothing to do with your happiness.  Those are the swings of the pendulum.”
  • P. 81 “You don’t even need to be in love.  Who told you you do? What you need is to be free.  What you need is to love.  That’s it; that’s your nature.  But what you’re really telling me is that you want to be desired.  You want to be applauded, to be attractive, to have all the little monkeys running after you. You’re wasting your life.  Wake up! You don’t need this.  You can be blissfully happy without it.”

The 4 Steps to Wisdom repeated again on P. 89: “Put this program into action, a thousand times:

  • (a) identify the negative feelings in you;
  • (b) understand that they are in you, not in the world, not in external reality;
  • (c) do not see them as an essential part of “I”; these things come and go;
  • (d) understand that when you change, everything changes.
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“What is a good man, but a bad man’s teacher? What is a bad man, but a good man’s job? If you don’t understand this, you will get lost, however intelligent you are. It is the great secret.”

30 Jun

Tao Te Ching on Other, Duality, Self, Wisdom, Yin-Yang, Lost,

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“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”

30 Jun

Tao Te Ching on Leadership, Power, Wisdom, Other

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“The path to the light seems dark, the path forward seems to go back, the direct path seems long, true power seems weak, true purity seems tarnished, true steadfastness seems changeable, true clarity seems obscure, the greatest art seems unsophisticated, the greatest love seems indifferent, the greatest wisdom seems childish.”

25 Jun

Tao Te Ching on Love, Wisdom, Impermanence, Truth, Purity, Leadership/Power, Illusion