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“Negative feelings, every negative feeling is useful for awareness, for understanding. They give you the opportunity to feel it, to watch it from the outside. In the beginning, the depression will still be there, but you will have to cut the connection with it. Gradually you will undestandind the depression. As you understand it, it will occur less frequently, and will disappear altoghether.”

Anthony de Mello in “Awareness”

Anthony de Mello in “Awareness”

On expanding the third step; never identify with negative feelings:

P. 80 “If you want to say depression is in there, that’s fine; if you want to say gloominess is in there, that’s fine. But not: I am gloomy.”
P. 80 “Your depression and your thrills have nothing to do with your happiness. Those are the swings of the pendulum.”
P. 81 “You don’t even need to be in love. Who told you you do? What you need is to be free. What you need is to love. That’s it; that’s your nature. But what you’re really telling me is that you want to be desired. You want to be applauded, to be attractive, to have all the little monkeys running after you. You’re wasting your life. Wake up! You don’t need this. You can be blissfully happy without it.”

The 4 Steps to Wisdom repeated again on P. 89: “Put this program into action, a thousand times: